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Flecks #24

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As in flecks of reflection from the week: what I'm learning and celebrating.

So, let's talk about this week.

Things I learned this week:



  • Advanced preparation makes almost all things better (or easier or less stressful).

  • Time alone wandering a bookstore, then sitting in the cafe with hot chocolate and my journal is restorative.

  • Happy faces are beautiful faces.

  • How to assemble a kite. It came with instructions which were completely unhelpful to me because I didn't understand the terminology. For example, I'm pretty sure a "bridle" is something you put on a horse and I don't know what that has to do with kites.

  • I love apple trees and apple blossoms. And the smell of apple blossoms.


Things I'm celebrating this week:



  • My birthday!

  • This blog's birthday!

  • My newsletter launched!

  • My first program (the Wonder Seeker 3-day photo challenge) launched! (I like to launch things the week of my birthday.)

  • New possibilities

  • Beautiful weather- the sunny days, the gray days, all of them. Temperatures have been wonderful.

  • My teenager found, interviewed for, and got a job- all by himself. Yay for him! (He's totally psyched about it.)


Things that are resonating with me this week:


Show Me Family by Amanda Magee at Brain, Child.

Creating a Community When You're a Lone Wolf by Teresa Reed (aka The Tarot Lady).

Your turn:


What did you learn this week? What are you celebrating? Leave a comment and I'll share a "Woohoo!"

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